Stevens Point Journal from Stevens Point, Wisconsin • Page 7

YOUR CONTACT Jamie Jung, Accent editor E-mail: accentstevenspointjournal.com Phone: (715) 344-6100, Ext. 2506 Fax: (715) 345-2069 Web: http:www.stevenspointjoumal.com Joint Journal A7 Monday August 11,2003 I lorn. Garden IL Monday Relationships GO! Food 6c Drink LDuCATlON 3 A ACQ Woman afraid to tell boyfriend about enhancements1 DEAR CAROLYN: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost five months. We are very happy and in love. He is very opinionated, real and honest he doesn't like plastic surgery, colored contacts or even dyed hair.

He is very down-to-earth. About a year and a half ago I got breast implants. They are not big because I just wanted them to be proportioned to the rest of my body He thinks that my breasts are just "really firm" and that I'm just lucky. He has every right to know, but I'm just so nervous about telling him. He may get upset for not some excellent reasons: You'll be busted eventually.

You're letting him believe you're someone you're not, and you can't be "happy and in love" without an honest foundation. You'll be more yourself around him, and presumably more at ease, if you get this off your chest. Anybody "real" and or "down-to-earth" would prefer a girlfriend who was able to differ with him intelligently to one who agrees with him falsely So you're nervous about telling him. Understandable he really might dump you. But still, you should be far more times, but good people fight their dark instincts, and are first in line to deplore them.

They judge themselves, harshly. Tell her again you won't listen any more, and mean it this time. Tell her and Mark nice friends you have, by the way that you won't lie to protect them if asked. And when she asks you again for respect, kindly suggest that she earn it. Write to "Tell Me About It, care of The Washington Post, Style Plus, 1150 15th NW, Washington, D.C.

20071, or e-mail tellmewashpost.com. nervous about not telling. Aren't you just as entitled to an opinion as he is? You made the choice, now own it or, if you regret what you did, disavow it. Life will only get harder if you keep using fear as an excuse not to stick to your guns. DEAR CAROLYN: My roommate "Mary" has a long-distance boyfriend of three years, but is seeing another guy "Mark," who knows about her boyfriend and also is one of my friends.

Mary says she is remorseful, but shows no sign of stopping. Listening to her talk about her "boy trouble" infuriates me. I think it's asking a lot of me to keep mum when she hooks up with Mark and then later her boyfriend comes over. I told her I refuse to hear about it any more, because it lowers my opinion of her and I want to stay friends. She said she wants me to stop judging her and respect her.

I said I respect her enough not to say anything to the boys, but that is all I can do. Am I being too judgmental? COLLEGE STUDENT For those who think Mary's demand for respect is even more egregious than her behavior like, say, me you're not being judgmental enough. Everyone behaves badly at Weddings Bannach-Wiernik Schubert Kathy Schubert and Brian McCloud were united in marriage on Feb. 8, 2003, at St. Joseph's Convent Chapel, Stevens Point.

The Rev. Robert Gregorich officiated at the 1 p.m. ceremony. John Myers and Jane Retterath provided music. The bride's parents are the late Theodore and Ann Schubert.

Parents of the bridegroom are Clinton and Jan McCloud, Stevens Point. Karen Flowerette was maid of honor. Bridesmaids were Pam McCloud Smith, Linda Casperson and Renee Kinney Scott Smith was best man. Groomsmen were Frank Flowerette, Thad Casperson and Michael Lubinski. Randy Schubert and Robert Harrer were ushers.

Powell Maria Powell and the Rev. Israel Haas exchanged vows on June 28, 2003, at Woodland's Church, Plover. The Revs. Ray Haas and Don Wratney officiated at the 1 p.m. ceremony.

Amy For-mella and Nick Travia provided music. The bride's parents are Peggi and Dean Kovacik, Racine. Parents of the bridegroom are the Rev. Ray Haas and Jen Haas, Stevens Point. Olivia Powell was maid of honor.

Bridesmaids were Sara Miller, Rachel Carrabee, and Tara Granger. Madisyn Haas and Chey-enna Kovacik were flower girls. Judah Haas was best man. Groomsmen were Jedidiah Haas, Jonathan Leeman and Solomon Powell. Julie Bannach and Bradley Wiernik, both of Stevens Point, were united in marriage on May 31, 2003, at St.

Bartholomew Catholic Church, Mill Creek. The Rev. Dan Kozlowski officiated at the 1 p.m. ceremony. Loretta Czaikowski and Sara Johnson provided music.

The bride's parents are Mary VanZandbergen, Stevens Point, and Frank and Dee VanZandbergen, Eau Claire. Parents of the bridegroom are Henry and Diane Wiernik, Stevens Point. Lynn Wiernik was maid of honor. Bridesmaids were Becky Zelewski, Beth Mervyn, Jenny Brilowski, Tammy Bannach and Rachael Bannach. Patrick Wiernik was best man.

Groomsmen were Shane McCloud Kathy and Brian McCloud Cook i A reception and dinner were held at the Elizabeth Inn. The couple took their wedding trip to northern Wisconsin. They reside in Stevens Point. hn-wm m--t bride is employed as a nurse's aide and part-time cashier. The bridegroom is employed by Spee Dee Delivery Scott, Brett and Cory Kovacik were ushers.

A reception and dinner were held at the Pfiffner Building. The couple took their weddirtg trip' to Eau Claire. They reside in Stevens Point. 1 1 jiu The bride is pursuing a degree ui chemistry at the University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point'." The bridegroom is a graduate of Stevens Point Area Senior High, a graduate of UWSP with a degree in biology, and a 2001 graduate of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. He is associate pastor at Community Church.

Konop, Roger Czerwony, Curt Konop, Colin Bannach and Fred Brown. 'Ron Eron and Brian Lee were ushers. TV reeepriofrand Ballroom1: The couple took theij; wedding trip, to the Ppconp Mountains, reside in Stevens Point. The bride is employed as an ink jet operator at JHL Mailmarketing. The bridegroom is employed as a project manager at Guzman Corporation.

Engagements Tell Me About It Carolyn Hax saying so earlier; or it may change our whole relationship. Should I even tell him? HORRIBLE SECRET I'm considering Botox myself, to help me keep a straight face. But I'll try this au naturel. Yes, you should tell him immediately where you purchased your luck. You've racked up Julie and Bradley Wiernik Scipior Cassandra and Chad Scipior Swanson Kena and Wesley Swanson J't V'." it-'-.

Glytas Anniversary Couple celebrate 50 years The engagement of Kristina Glytas and John Cook, both of Bonita Springs, is announced. She is the daughter of Dolores and Val Glytas, Plover. His parents are Nancy and Bill Cook, Ft. Lauderdale, Fla. Glytas is a graduate of Pacelli High School, Kendall College in Evanston, 111., and the Florida Culinary Institute with a degree in international baking and pastry.

She is i i A Haas Maria and Israel Haas Donald and Lucille Shafranski Couples observing anniversaries can submit announcements with original wedding photos and current photos for 50th, 60th, 70th and 75th celebrations. Anniversary articles can be submitted without photos at five-year intervals beginning with the 25th anniversary. Forms are available at the Journal's front reception desk, 1200 Third Court. Contact the Journal at 344-6100, Ext. 2506, or jamie.jungfii cwnews.net.

1 In fab- i -1 J.i..J 1 i i I Kreuser Cassandra Kreuser and Chad Scipior exchanged vows on July 12, 2003, at St. Bartholomew's Catholic Church, Stevens Point. The Rev. Dan Kozlowski officiated at the 1:30 p.m. ceremony.

Toni Groshek provided music. Parents of the bride are Ken Kreuser, Colgate, and Dottie Davenport, Barneveld. The bridegroom's parents are LaVern Scipior, Stevens Point, and Dolores Scipior, Stevens Point. Rachel Kreuser was maid of honor. Bridesmaids were Kim Rusch, Valarie Jazdzewski, Amanda Jankowski and Rey-lene Sankey Ryan Wanta was best man.

Groomsmen were Dean Rusch, Neal Kreuser, Ryan Scipior and Nathan Sankey. Justin Jankowski and Daniel employed as a pastry chef at the Hyatt Regency. Cook, a graduate of Ft. Lauderdale High School and the Florida Culinary Institute with a degrees in full culinary and international baking and pastry, is employed at Ritz Carlton Golf Resort, Naples, Fla. A fall 2004 wedding is planned.

Donald and Lucille Shafran-ski, Milwaukee, will celebrate their 50th anniversary on Aug. 19. A celebration with family and friends was held Aug. 2 at the home of their son and daughter-in-law in Men-omonee Falls. A special Mass at their parish church, Holy Trinity in Milwaukee, was held on Aug.

3. The former Lucille Wola-shek and Donald Shafranski were married Aug. 19, 1953, at St. Peter Catholic Church in Stevens Point. Their children are Ann Fischbach, Milwaukee; Jerry Shafranski, Virginia Beach, John Shafranski, New Berlin; Therese Shafranski, Minneapolis; Christine Weis, Racine; Stephanie Sterr, Men-omonee Falls; and Joyce Schwingel, Richfield.

They Toftum The engagement of Sarah Toftum, Amherst, and Aaron Kramer, Ripon, is announced. She is the daughter of Richard and Verna Toftum, Amherst. His parents are Gary and Jody Zahn, Pickett, and Richard and Joy Kramer, Winneconne. Toftum is a 1997 graduate of Amherst High School and a 2001 graduate of Mid-State Technical College with a degree in nursing. Kramer Salamone Rusch were ushers.

A reception and dinner were held at Shooter's. The couple reside in Stevens Point. The bride, a graduate of Mid-State Technical College, is employed at Sentry Insurance, Stevens Point. The bridegroom, a 1998 graduate of Stevens Point Area Senior High, is employed at Wisconsin Public Service, Wausau. She is employed by St.

Michael's Hospital. Kramer is a 1987 graduate of Ripon High School and a 1997 graduate of the University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point with degrees in political science and public administration. He is employed as a legislative aide for state Rep. Luther Olsen (R-Berlin) and is the mayor of Ripon. An April 24, 2004, wedding is planned.

have 14 grandchildren. Donald retired as a draftsman from A.O. Smith in Milwaukee. He also served on active duty in the Marine Corps from 1945 to 1948, and again in 1950 and 1951. He was in the reserves in 1949, and during his tour of duty he was sent to China.

His rank was staff sergeant when he was honorably discharged. Lucille is a homemaker. They enjoy walking, gardening, cooking and volunteering at their church. They also enjoy spending time with their children and grandchildren. Anderson The engagement of Erin Anderson and Charles Salamone is announced.

She is the daughter of Kevin Anderson, Aurora, and Jodie Anderson, Aurora. His parents are Philip and Carla Salamone, Rothschild, and Linda Alfinito, Anderson, a 2000 graduate of Florence High School in Florence, is pursuing degrees in Spanish and international studies at the Journal announces publication guidelines Woods Kena Woods and Wesley Swanson exchanged vows on Feb. 8, 2003, in Indianapolis, Ind. The Rev. Steven Kachel officiated at the ceremony.

Parents of the bride are Larry Woods, Indianapolis, and Jan Kirby, Pendleton, Ind. The bridegroom's parents are David and Donna Swan-son, Custer. The couple reside in Indianapolis. They plan to move to Hamilton, to pursue employment. The bride received a bachelor's degree from Butler University in Indianapolis.

She is a 2003 graduate of Indiana University School of Medicine with a doctorate in microbiology and immunology The bridegroom also University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point. Salamone, a 1999 graduate of DC Everest High School in Weston, is pursing degrees in psychology and religious studies at UWSP. He is employed at the Wagon Wheel Resort, Ellison Bay. An Aug. 23, 2003, wedding is planned.

Area couples planning engagement, wedding and anniversary celebrations can submit announcements to the Stevens Point Journal. Couples with photographs to publish with wedding announcements should have the photo and information to the Journal office no later than six months following the wedding. Engagement announcements should be submitted at least 'one month before the wedding. Dommershausen-Boldebuck The engagement of Tara Dommershausen, Middleton, and Burton Boldebuck Verona, is announced. She is the daughter of Michael and Judy Nelson, Westport, and the late David Dommershausen.

His parents are Burton and Barbara Boldebuck, Plover. A Nov. 8, 2003, wedding is planned. received a bachelor's degree from Butler University He is a 2003 graduate of the University of Illinois with a master's degree in organic chemistry..